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Holiday Mode: OFF

I've spent a lot of time with the family over the holidays. More the kids than the adults. I'm in my last few days in holiday mode before we get back into the swing of things at work and school. There are a lot of changes at work that I don't really want to think about and there are changes/issues with the family that I've just decided not to think about.

What I have learned over the Christmas holidays is that no family is immune to problems. Not even mine. I knew this, but one little thing causes a ripple effect that results in you looking at people in your family a little differently.

For this reason, I am glad the holidays are almost over.

I love my family and I want them to just be happy with themselves, with what they have and with each other.

I'm glad I have Hubs.
She is a true fortification of love.

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