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Tangihanga

I knew I had photos somewhere on my drive.
Snuck across the road for an hour while no one was there and sat with Aunty Poppy. The body arrived home late last night.

"Wake her up Mum so she knows we're here"
"She's not waking up mate. She died remember"
"Michael Jackson died"
"Yes he did"
"Do you think he's seen Aunty Poppy yet?"
"I'm not so sure they're in the same place"

I won't make the funeral because of work and I feel a bit sick about it.

Comments

Unknown said…
Gorgeous photos - thanks for sharing. I'm Alice Joyces (Aunty Poppys sister) daughter-in-law. I just have to say as well that I love reading ur posts. U keep it real and say it how it is and I love that. Was hoping to say hi at the funeral, next time.
Melissa said…
I didn't know you were working. What are you doing?

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