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Inked for Christmas

Sometimes I get inked to remember things.
3 memorable things have happened in my life, I have three inks.
The most recent inkage occured yesterday.

2010 has been a roller coaster year of emotions. The lows outweigh the highs by a tonne, but towards the end of the year things have picked up muchisimo. When Larry was given 12 months to live (this has been voided since dialysis began, btw), our ultimate goal was an LDS Temple sealing. After ten years of marriage, we fulfilled that in July and that was the inspiration for the ink.

A painful, permanent and discreet momento that I'll have him for forever.

Kanji - Eternity

It's ok, my Mum shook her head and told me I was an idiot too.


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