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Weighing our options

There aren't many left, really.

Since learning of the news that our first two hurdles with NZ immigration have been denied, it's been exhausting trying to figure out what to do next. After NZ deny his residency completely, a lawyer is needed to assist with the appeal and as much as I can't be bothered with it, Larry insists on remaining in New Zealand and fighting it. I appreciate that he has the energy to mentally carry on (pretty sure it's the dialysis), and to a degree back him in his desire to do so.

However, over the last few days I've resigned myself to the fact that it's probably going to be easier for me to get my US Residency reinstated under hardships than it would be to simply keep Larry here.

We are at the mercy of a system that doesn't seem to have a heart .. unless you're a hobbit.


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