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Merry late Christmas

Christmas 2020 was pretty mellow. So mellow I didn't take any photos of the occasion that are worth posting. It was small and right to the point and then everyone went their separate ways for the rest of the afternoon to slumber off the good food, which we got rid of so we weren't eating left overs til new years.

My Christmas present to myself was an iPhone 12 Pro Max and the perfume Glam Jasmine by Michael Kors. Hub's got a scooter and AirPods. The iPhone 12 has officially outshone any actual cameras I have.

It's obvious been less active on the blog. Blame 2020. It's been a year of unknowns and there have been more global downs than there have been ups. I don't want to shut the blog down completely, because I know there are a few who appreciate it, but I am in the process of going off public and figuring out the best way to make it private without it being too much of a hassle for you Internets.

Not looking forward to returning to work. The atmosphere at work continues to be toxic and the one thing that needs to change is the one thing the powers-that-be turn a blind eye to. If I didn't have debt, I'd be happy working a 20 hour per week job. This brings me to my to-do list for 2021. The top of that list and the highest priority is to eliminate debt - non essential debt. I am excited about doing that.

Hubs will begin Year 6 this year at school. She's curious, opinionated and becoming quite the independent and self-sufficient 10 year old.

Contemplating study again, but it's a hassle with a full time job. I have a few more weeks to decide. 




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